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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by Firebird</title>
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		<dc:creator>Firebird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No c ock or balls - just for a night or two!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No c ock or balls &#8211; just for a night or two!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by Kariana S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kariana S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:16:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>probably the same thing they seek from a male partner: love, acceptance, companionship, support...
if you are with someone for the sex or the social life, it is not a relationship, whether it be with a man or a woman.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>probably the same thing they seek from a male partner: love, acceptance, companionship, support&#8230;<br />
if you are with someone for the sex or the social life, it is not a relationship, whether it be with a man or a woman.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by Anya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:14:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I seek the same thing with a female partner that I do with a male partner. Affection, common ground, love.. No, it is not about the sex. No, as a bisexual woman I do not have a male partner and a female partner. I put my allegiance with who I love. I love my fiance. I am going to marry my fiance. I plan to always be with my fiance. Do I feel the need to cheat and be with a person of the opposite gender of my fiance? No. No I do not.  Love is what matters, not gender. 
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IknowNothing

 I am a bisexual woman. I have liked both genders since I was in the 1st grade. I am many, many, many years out of high school. I have NEVER had a problem with commitment. I have NEVER cheated. My sex drive is low to average due to medical issues, but never high, never &#039;powerful&#039;. Sex with women is great. But so is sex with men. The gender of the person is meaningless to me, and I would NEVER cheat on the person I was dating. If I am with a person of one gender, I do NOT feel the need to be with the other gender at the same time. Because as I said, gender means nothing to me.

 I wanted to date both genders before I even knew what sex was.. explain to me that one, explain how it is possible for a 5 year old with no sex drive, no knowledge of sex, to have a powerful sex drive leading them to be bisexual.

 You say that Homosexuals are dedicated to being homosexual, but seem to think that bisexuals lack dedication... Well we ARE dedicated. We are dedicated to finding a person we love, some one we can be with for the rest of our lives. We are NOT dedicated to gender, we are dedicated to people.
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One Odd Naive Native, 

 Do not listen to people who admit that they are not bisexual woman. It is not something they can understand, and  IknowNothing prooves that.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I seek the same thing with a female partner that I do with a male partner. Affection, common ground, love.. No, it is not about the sex. No, as a bisexual woman I do not have a male partner and a female partner. I put my allegiance with who I love. I love my fiance. I am going to marry my fiance. I plan to always be with my fiance. Do I feel the need to cheat and be with a person of the opposite gender of my fiance? No. No I do not.  Love is what matters, not gender.<br />
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IknowNothing</p>
<p> I am a bisexual woman. I have liked both genders since I was in the 1st grade. I am many, many, many years out of high school. I have NEVER had a problem with commitment. I have NEVER cheated. My sex drive is low to average due to medical issues, but never high, never &#8216;powerful&#8217;. Sex with women is great. But so is sex with men. The gender of the person is meaningless to me, and I would NEVER cheat on the person I was dating. If I am with a person of one gender, I do NOT feel the need to be with the other gender at the same time. Because as I said, gender means nothing to me.</p>
<p> I wanted to date both genders before I even knew what sex was.. explain to me that one, explain how it is possible for a 5 year old with no sex drive, no knowledge of sex, to have a powerful sex drive leading them to be bisexual.</p>
<p> You say that Homosexuals are dedicated to being homosexual, but seem to think that bisexuals lack dedication&#8230; Well we ARE dedicated. We are dedicated to finding a person we love, some one we can be with for the rest of our lives. We are NOT dedicated to gender, we are dedicated to people.<br />
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One Odd Naive Native, </p>
<p> Do not listen to people who admit that they are not bisexual woman. It is not something they can understand, and  IknowNothing prooves that.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by Diana A.V.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana A.V.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Personally I will be looking for is for a loving relationship where I will be attracted to this person in a sexual, romantically, physically and mentally way. 
I will be looking for a companion, lover, friend, love. &lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Bi</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personally I will be looking for is for a loving relationship where I will be attracted to this person in a sexual, romantically, physically and mentally way.<br />
I will be looking for a companion, lover, friend, love. <br /><b>References : </b><br />Bi</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by hsmith</title>
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		<dc:creator>hsmith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i guess what anyone would look in a relashionship&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i guess what anyone would look in a relashionship<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by victimless criminal</title>
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		<dc:creator>victimless criminal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:08:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I personally look for all things that you would get in a relationship, sexually and emotionally.

edit:  As a bi-woman I have never had a relationship with a man and woman at the same time, i believe cheating is wrong as do many bisexuals.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;bi girl</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I personally look for all things that you would get in a relationship, sexually and emotionally.</p>
<p>edit:  As a bi-woman I have never had a relationship with a man and woman at the same time, i believe cheating is wrong as do many bisexuals.<br /><b>References : </b><br />bi girl</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by IknowNothing</title>
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		<dc:creator>IknowNothing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;-- Not a bi-sexual woman. 

But I imagine it is for the sexual relationship or inability to commit to a single relationship. Having known many gay men and women, I understand how committed they are to a single gender. A lesbian woman who knows she is a lesbian is definitely a lesbian and would not feel the need or want to sleep with any men. A gay man who knows that he is a committed homosexual will stay homosexual. 

I feel it is the sexual curiosity as well as the inability to commit to a single relationship that causes the bi-sexual desire. In most cases I imagine that this behavior is caused by a very powerful sex drive. Pleasure pleasure pleasure. 

Sex with women is awesome. A person who has a very high sex drive will want to experience both sides of the fence just to see and taste how green the grass is.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&lt;&#8211; Not a bi-sexual woman. </p>
<p>But I imagine it is for the sexual relationship or inability to commit to a single relationship. Having known many gay men and women, I understand how committed they are to a single gender. A lesbian woman who knows she is a lesbian is definitely a lesbian and would not feel the need or want to sleep with any men. A gay man who knows that he is a committed homosexual will stay homosexual. </p>
<p>I feel it is the sexual curiosity as well as the inability to commit to a single relationship that causes the bi-sexual desire. In most cases I imagine that this behavior is caused by a very powerful sex drive. Pleasure pleasure pleasure. </p>
<p>Sex with women is awesome. A person who has a very high sex drive will want to experience both sides of the fence just to see and taste how green the grass is.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by indiechouette</title>
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		<dc:creator>indiechouette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The intellectual/social contact means so much more to me than any sexual intimacy.  I love women in the same way that I love men, and that means personality first.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The intellectual/social contact means so much more to me than any sexual intimacy.  I love women in the same way that I love men, and that means personality first.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Internet and Human Relationships by dear L</title>
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		<dc:creator>dear L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our species has had problems interacting from the beginning. Technology is just another clutch.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our species has had problems interacting from the beginning. Technology is just another clutch.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by Pure Awesomeness</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pure Awesomeness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It depends on the woman and what she currently wants.
She could be with that woman for companionship, sex, love or other things, the same as when the bisexual woman is with a man.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m bi</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It depends on the woman and what she currently wants.<br />
She could be with that woman for companionship, sex, love or other things, the same as when the bisexual woman is with a man.<br /><b>References : </b><br />I&#8217;m bi</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Internet and Human Relationships by CVDymond84</title>
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		<dc:creator>CVDymond84</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes actually I believe it is also. I went from calling my mother like 6 times a day to sending her and my little sister IM&#039;s on Yahoo Messenger, and hitting up their myspace&#039;s. We do it more and more since she moved from where I am in Massachusetts to Georgia. Also, I &quot;Google&quot; everything. A Dictionary, Thesaurus, Phone Book, even Bible I can look up all the information online.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes actually I believe it is also. I went from calling my mother like 6 times a day to sending her and my little sister IM&#8217;s on Yahoo Messenger, and hitting up their myspace&#8217;s. We do it more and more since she moved from where I am in Massachusetts to Georgia. Also, I &quot;Google&quot; everything. A Dictionary, Thesaurus, Phone Book, even Bible I can look up all the information online.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by Gaz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In it for both reasons,  plenty tongue and intellect !!!!!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In it for both reasons,  plenty tongue and intellect !!!!!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Internet and Human Relationships by Chances68</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chances68</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 13:58:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s certainly not destroying human communication.  In fact, in terms of breadth and scope, and in terms of the number of people an average person might communicate in the course of a day, it&#039;s increased human communication hugely.  It is, however, causing a raid development in human communication.  

You note that we seldom seem to speak face to face anymore.  That&#039;s certainly true, and yet how many more people per day do you think our ancestors spoke to face to face than we do today?  As a percentage, surely a lot more, but in absolute numbers?  I&#039;d suggest about the same.  We talk to more people, from much wider areas than our ancestors ever dreamed of.

You note that people that we do talk to often are also using gadgets.  I have been annoyed by this trend, but I think of it as a part of that evolution I mentioned before.  We tend to multitask now, more than ever.  I&#039;m not sure that frenetic pace is a good thing, however.

Finally, your draw a conclusion that we are now farther apart than ever before.  I&#039;m not sure I agree, and I don&#039;t see any evidence to support your conclusion directly.  I have internet pen pals from all around the world, and in some ways, I think the ease of long range communication has brought us closer together than was ever possible before.  I talk to people daily who have completely different takes upon world events, based on their culture and upbringing, and I think that variety of opinion is very enlightening.  

At any rate, we are having to evolve.  Our modes of behavior, our traditions are changing, and while it styresses those of us who are comfortable with the old, traditional ways of doing things, in just a few short decades, most of us will be gone, and our children will be lamenting the changes they see.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s certainly not destroying human communication.  In fact, in terms of breadth and scope, and in terms of the number of people an average person might communicate in the course of a day, it&#8217;s increased human communication hugely.  It is, however, causing a raid development in human communication.  </p>
<p>You note that we seldom seem to speak face to face anymore.  That&#8217;s certainly true, and yet how many more people per day do you think our ancestors spoke to face to face than we do today?  As a percentage, surely a lot more, but in absolute numbers?  I&#8217;d suggest about the same.  We talk to more people, from much wider areas than our ancestors ever dreamed of.</p>
<p>You note that people that we do talk to often are also using gadgets.  I have been annoyed by this trend, but I think of it as a part of that evolution I mentioned before.  We tend to multitask now, more than ever.  I&#8217;m not sure that frenetic pace is a good thing, however.</p>
<p>Finally, your draw a conclusion that we are now farther apart than ever before.  I&#8217;m not sure I agree, and I don&#8217;t see any evidence to support your conclusion directly.  I have internet pen pals from all around the world, and in some ways, I think the ease of long range communication has brought us closer together than was ever possible before.  I talk to people daily who have completely different takes upon world events, based on their culture and upbringing, and I think that variety of opinion is very enlightening.  </p>
<p>At any rate, we are having to evolve.  Our modes of behavior, our traditions are changing, and while it styresses those of us who are comfortable with the old, traditional ways of doing things, in just a few short decades, most of us will be gone, and our children will be lamenting the changes they see.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by Han</title>
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		<dc:creator>Han</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 13:58:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A strap on maybe?&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A strap on maybe?<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Internet and Human Relationships by Nine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 06:56:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Is technology (phones, tv, internet, machinery) destroying human relationships and communication?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Is technology (phones, tv, internet, machinery) destroying human relationships?
I personally believe it is in little ways. 

1.) Advertisements are continually cheapening human interaction. Example: the man who is talking about &quot;finding his queen&quot; and we think he is talking about a woman but no he is talking about a sofa. 
2.) Face to face interaction has become less and less important in society. We are all on our phones, watching TV or on our computers sending text messages or on facebook. 
3.) Everywhere you look people are not looking at the person they are talking to, they are too busy with gadgets. I mean who here has been annoyed becuase the person they were talking to was texting?
4. We now have more ways than ever to communicate but we are farther apart than we have ever been.

So basically my question is, Do you think technology is good or bad for humans?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Is technology (phones, tv, internet, machinery) destroying human relationships and communication?</b><br />Is technology (phones, tv, internet, machinery) destroying human relationships?<br />
I personally believe it is in little ways. </p>
<p>1.) Advertisements are continually cheapening human interaction. Example: the man who is talking about &quot;finding his queen&quot; and we think he is talking about a woman but no he is talking about a sofa.<br />
2.) Face to face interaction has become less and less important in society. We are all on our phones, watching TV or on our computers sending text messages or on facebook.<br />
3.) Everywhere you look people are not looking at the person they are talking to, they are too busy with gadgets. I mean who here has been annoyed becuase the person they were talking to was texting?<br />
4. We now have more ways than ever to communicate but we are farther apart than we have ever been.</p>
<p>So basically my question is, Do you think technology is good or bad for humans?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Do Men and Women Seek Partners for Relationship? by wenvorster</title>
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		<dc:creator>wenvorster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 06:56:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;What do bi-sexual women seek in a relationship with their female partner?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Are bi-sexual women in it for the sexual relationship, or do they equally value the social contact with women?

I get quite confused y the answers so far. As a bi-woman you tend to have a male partner as well as a female one. Where do you put your allegiance?
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<p>I get quite confused y the answers so far. As a bi-woman you tend to have a male partner as well as a female one. Where do you put your allegiance?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why I Think the Failing Marriage Help Will Come From Open Relationships by loven_life</title>
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		<dc:creator>loven_life</dc:creator>
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		<description>Alright first don&#039;t think that i am to young to answer this question i am going into 8th grade. now that me explain my parents divorced when i was in 2nd grade. My dad started to date soon after the divorce when one became serious my sister and i saw her all the time. she was nice to us but she always felt like she was trying to be our mom. We see our mom every four days, so it wasn&#039;t like she was out of our lives were we needed a mother. So any way my dads gf never had a good relationship with my mother. Now back to your question. i think that you have to let her know some how that you are not trying to take her place as her mom just that you want a relationship with her and for her to have someone she can trust when she wants to talk. Then sorry but the next step depends how she responds. She will never be perfect with it but if she takes it ok then talk with her let her get to know you. Shes going to want to know who you are if you are spending time with her kid. If she doesn&#039;t take it well give her time and maybe try later or have your bf talk with her and explain everything. Hope that helps I just hoped that someone was there to tell my dads now gf this! sorry it got long&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;personal experiances</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright first don&#8217;t think that i am to young to answer this question i am going into 8th grade. now that me explain my parents divorced when i was in 2nd grade. My dad started to date soon after the divorce when one became serious my sister and i saw her all the time. she was nice to us but she always felt like she was trying to be our mom. We see our mom every four days, so it wasn&#8217;t like she was out of our lives were we needed a mother. So any way my dads gf never had a good relationship with my mother. Now back to your question. i think that you have to let her know some how that you are not trying to take her place as her mom just that you want a relationship with her and for her to have someone she can trust when she wants to talk. Then sorry but the next step depends how she responds. She will never be perfect with it but if she takes it ok then talk with her let her get to know you. Shes going to want to know who you are if you are spending time with her kid. If she doesn&#8217;t take it well give her time and maybe try later or have your bf talk with her and explain everything. Hope that helps I just hoped that someone was there to tell my dads now gf this! sorry it got long<br /><b>References : </b><br />personal experiances</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why I Think the Failing Marriage Help Will Come From Open Relationships by Domi E.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Domi E.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 09:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First thing is for your boyfriend to talk to ex and make sure that she understands what your role is and will be in his life and his childs life. 

You also have to realize that  a relationship between you and the ex is going to take time. The both of you have to get use to each other and figure out the level of your interaction. Right now, even though you don&#039;t feel like it, you are still a girlfriend and she has not guarantee that you will be in the picture long term. So its is understandable that she might not consider you at all times. I think the fact that she&#039;s trusting you enough to take care of her child for weeks at a time is a big step. Take baby steps. And if you feel like she is ever stepping on your toes or not considering you then feel free to speak up about it. She will not acknowledge you until you acknowledge yourself first. 

The best advice I have is to be patient. This is an awkward situation and there really is no handbook for how to deal with your man&#039;s ex..especailly when a child is involved. Seems like all three of you are moving in the right direction&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First thing is for your boyfriend to talk to ex and make sure that she understands what your role is and will be in his life and his childs life. </p>
<p>You also have to realize that  a relationship between you and the ex is going to take time. The both of you have to get use to each other and figure out the level of your interaction. Right now, even though you don&#8217;t feel like it, you are still a girlfriend and she has not guarantee that you will be in the picture long term. So its is understandable that she might not consider you at all times. I think the fact that she&#8217;s trusting you enough to take care of her child for weeks at a time is a big step. Take baby steps. And if you feel like she is ever stepping on your toes or not considering you then feel free to speak up about it. She will not acknowledge you until you acknowledge yourself first. </p>
<p>The best advice I have is to be patient. This is an awkward situation and there really is no handbook for how to deal with your man&#8217;s ex..especailly when a child is involved. Seems like all three of you are moving in the right direction<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why I Think the Failing Marriage Help Will Come From Open Relationships by swelou</title>
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		<dc:creator>swelou</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 09:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All you can do is try.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All you can do is try.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Why I Think the Failing Marriage Help Will Come From Open Relationships by it is what it is</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 02:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;step mom, please help?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am a step mom (or soon to be) of a wonderful 2 and a half year old little girl. My boyfriend and I have been together now for a year and a half. My boyfriend and his ex wife separated when the baby was only a few months old, (no I was not the reason) at that time the ex wife took advantage of the fact that he felt guilt for the marriage failing and that he didn’t know that he could’ve stopped her and she moved out of state back to her hometown, half way across the country. This will be a second marriage for both of us, we’ve known each other since we were kids… at any rate, his ex wife kept their daughter in her homestate and wouldn’t allow visitation to him or his family unless they flew out to see her, which he did several times. When he and I first started dating I didn’t know the specifics of their divorce or their previous agreements so I kept my mouth shut and stayed out of it. He flew out there every 6 weeks to spend anywhere from 5-7 days with her, which ended up being only two days at a time. His ex would let him keep their dauhter for more than two days and then would make him bring her back to her and then he could keep her for another two days before he left… which to me is BS since your making him go all that way and he isnt getting to spend the quality time with her that he was looking to or that she told him he could, but again I kept my mouth shut.
Now over the past year I have given him some advice. I got him to speak up to her and request that she or he be allowed to bring their daughter back here for visitation for him and his family, mind you the family and her (the ex) don’t get along at all, so his parents didn’t see their only grandchild for almost a year, which really bothers me, coming from a tight knit family. I told him I thought he should seek out custody arrangements with an attorney to have the courts appoint visitation so that he is guaranteed to get his time with her, which he has done, we are still waiting on the courts though. Meanwhile, since he has pursued an attorney the ex wife is allowing their daughter to come and stay with us for a few weeks every few months, which is great! 
My dilema is that his ex wife doesn’t see me as anything but just a girlfriend. Yes if you want to be technical I am… BUT at the same time, I am going to be marrying her ex and be their daughters step mom, so I will be a major part of their daughters life. I know I don’t have the right to make life decisions on their daughters behalf, But I am the one who she spends a lot of time (which I am grateful for) with if he gets stuck working when she is here, he works shifts and he cant always get the time off he requests (since he is low man at his job and my job is very flexible with time off I take as much time as we need for her). How do I get his ex-wife to start including me in travel plans and such? Or even recognizing that I am here to stay and I am not going anywhere so she has to deal with me as well! When their daughter is here, we follow ALL of the same rules her mother has for her at her house, bed times, nap times, snack times, dinner times etc., even down to the time outs if she misbehaves (as much as we hate to) we want this transition from our house to hers to be as easy as possible and want her to know that different houses doesn’t mean there are different rules! I also want her to know about the things I try to do or have done with her when she is here, so that she doesn’t feel like an outsider. Is there I way that I can try to develop some type of relationship with my future husbands ex, that is healthy and open as opposed to it being a resentful and painstaking relationship? 
Sorry this is a little long winded, I am trying to give you all a background on the relationship as it is now... feel free to ask questions
Thank you for your responses... and any additional info you can offer me is extremely helpful also! 
Lovin_Life... I do not think you are too young at all, in fact I think it is great that you responded because it opens my eyes to the other side, the kid side and I love that! As adults we sometimes lose sight of how the child feels and that isnt right. We need to include them every step of the way, which is what I try to do with her when she is here, even though she is so young, I think when she gets older she will appreciate that more! 
THANK YOU
and to Domi E thank you for your honesty, I held my breathe posting this b/c I was prepared for someone to bash me telling me I need to know my roll and back out of the childs life or something similar, since I read other Step Parenting questions prior to posting this one. 
Thank you!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>step mom, please help?</b><br />I am a step mom (or soon to be) of a wonderful 2 and a half year old little girl. My boyfriend and I have been together now for a year and a half. My boyfriend and his ex wife separated when the baby was only a few months old, (no I was not the reason) at that time the ex wife took advantage of the fact that he felt guilt for the marriage failing and that he didn’t know that he could’ve stopped her and she moved out of state back to her hometown, half way across the country. This will be a second marriage for both of us, we’ve known each other since we were kids… at any rate, his ex wife kept their daughter in her homestate and wouldn’t allow visitation to him or his family unless they flew out to see her, which he did several times. When he and I first started dating I didn’t know the specifics of their divorce or their previous agreements so I kept my mouth shut and stayed out of it. He flew out there every 6 weeks to spend anywhere from 5-7 days with her, which ended up being only two days at a time. His ex would let him keep their dauhter for more than two days and then would make him bring her back to her and then he could keep her for another two days before he left… which to me is BS since your making him go all that way and he isnt getting to spend the quality time with her that he was looking to or that she told him he could, but again I kept my mouth shut.<br />
Now over the past year I have given him some advice. I got him to speak up to her and request that she or he be allowed to bring their daughter back here for visitation for him and his family, mind you the family and her (the ex) don’t get along at all, so his parents didn’t see their only grandchild for almost a year, which really bothers me, coming from a tight knit family. I told him I thought he should seek out custody arrangements with an attorney to have the courts appoint visitation so that he is guaranteed to get his time with her, which he has done, we are still waiting on the courts though. Meanwhile, since he has pursued an attorney the ex wife is allowing their daughter to come and stay with us for a few weeks every few months, which is great!<br />
My dilema is that his ex wife doesn’t see me as anything but just a girlfriend. Yes if you want to be technical I am… BUT at the same time, I am going to be marrying her ex and be their daughters step mom, so I will be a major part of their daughters life. I know I don’t have the right to make life decisions on their daughters behalf, But I am the one who she spends a lot of time (which I am grateful for) with if he gets stuck working when she is here, he works shifts and he cant always get the time off he requests (since he is low man at his job and my job is very flexible with time off I take as much time as we need for her). How do I get his ex-wife to start including me in travel plans and such? Or even recognizing that I am here to stay and I am not going anywhere so she has to deal with me as well! When their daughter is here, we follow ALL of the same rules her mother has for her at her house, bed times, nap times, snack times, dinner times etc., even down to the time outs if she misbehaves (as much as we hate to) we want this transition from our house to hers to be as easy as possible and want her to know that different houses doesn’t mean there are different rules! I also want her to know about the things I try to do or have done with her when she is here, so that she doesn’t feel like an outsider. Is there I way that I can try to develop some type of relationship with my future husbands ex, that is healthy and open as opposed to it being a resentful and painstaking relationship?<br />
Sorry this is a little long winded, I am trying to give you all a background on the relationship as it is now&#8230; feel free to ask questions<br />
Thank you for your responses&#8230; and any additional info you can offer me is extremely helpful also!<br />
Lovin_Life&#8230; I do not think you are too young at all, in fact I think it is great that you responded because it opens my eyes to the other side, the kid side and I love that! As adults we sometimes lose sight of how the child feels and that isnt right. We need to include them every step of the way, which is what I try to do with her when she is here, even though she is so young, I think when she gets older she will appreciate that more!<br />
THANK YOU<br />
and to Domi E thank you for your honesty, I held my breathe posting this b/c I was prepared for someone to bash me telling me I need to know my roll and back out of the childs life or something similar, since I read other Step Parenting questions prior to posting this one.<br />
Thank you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by dbarnes1963@sbcglobal.net</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I lost my marriage of 17 years, due largely to my Bi-polar Disorder ( I won&#039;t discuss her problems). We have 2 beautiful children and remained best friends to this day. WE STILL HAVE LOVE and work together on our children&#039;s upbringing, though living together is not an option. If an intimate relationship does not seem plausible, then you BOTH should move on.  

TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION..... YES, ABSOLUTELY!!
EVERYONE NEEDS LOVE!!  Also, if you could do us &quot;CRAZY PEOPLE&quot; a favor..... please try to both understand us and not give us negative labels.  Believe me, I&#039;ve met many a &quot;NORMAL&quot; person that I thinkshould be in the &quot;FUNNY FARM!&quot;

Besides, in our current world, can ANYONE actually define &quot;CRAZY&quot; vs. &quot;NORMAL?&quot;  If one watches the news on a regular basis, one would have to think that the entire world has gone mad! 

Also.... TRY PRAYER! Many say it isn&#039;t helpful, but I SAY IT CAN&#039;T HURT, EITHER !

I do wish BOTH of you a prosperous future.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Life experiences</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I lost my marriage of 17 years, due largely to my Bi-polar Disorder ( I won&#8217;t discuss her problems). We have 2 beautiful children and remained best friends to this day. WE STILL HAVE LOVE and work together on our children&#8217;s upbringing, though living together is not an option. If an intimate relationship does not seem plausible, then you BOTH should move on.  </p>
<p>TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION&#8230;.. YES, ABSOLUTELY!!<br />
EVERYONE NEEDS LOVE!!  Also, if you could do us &quot;CRAZY PEOPLE&quot; a favor&#8230;.. please try to both understand us and not give us negative labels.  Believe me, I&#8217;ve met many a &quot;NORMAL&quot; person that I thinkshould be in the &quot;FUNNY FARM!&quot;</p>
<p>Besides, in our current world, can ANYONE actually define &quot;CRAZY&quot; vs. &quot;NORMAL?&quot;  If one watches the news on a regular basis, one would have to think that the entire world has gone mad! </p>
<p>Also&#8230;. TRY PRAYER! Many say it isn&#8217;t helpful, but I SAY IT CAN&#8217;T HURT, EITHER !</p>
<p>I do wish BOTH of you a prosperous future.<br /><b>References : </b><br />Life experiences</p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by Mydz</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, they do deserve to be loved and understood...

I can probably relate to you also because I&#039;ve been dating a guy, from high school (not since high school) for about 2 years now (on and off) due to him having mild psychosis. He never thought this illness would hit him unexpectedly 2 years ago or even further back when we were in school. Doctors said the cause or the contributing factors may be that he was under a lot of stress in school, he was bullied a few times and we had to break up suddenly during the last school years. Also maybe coz he&#039;s an only child and wasn&#039;t brought up normally...
He becomes ego-centric and arrogant but deep down inside, I know that he doesn&#039;t want to be this person. He didn&#039;t choose to be like he is at times. Just now, he told me that he knows that he hasn&#039;t been treating me right but he doesn&#039;t have intentions to do it on purpose.

I think &#039;crazy people&#039; will get better if they get the support and understanding they need without being judged and excluded. I think this is what makes them become crazy!

I don&#039;t want to abandon him altogether coz it&#039;s not good. We haven&#039;t seen each other for a few months now coz we&#039;re having time apart after another incident&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Experiencing now</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, they do deserve to be loved and understood&#8230;</p>
<p>I can probably relate to you also because I&#8217;ve been dating a guy, from high school (not since high school) for about 2 years now (on and off) due to him having mild psychosis. He never thought this illness would hit him unexpectedly 2 years ago or even further back when we were in school. Doctors said the cause or the contributing factors may be that he was under a lot of stress in school, he was bullied a few times and we had to break up suddenly during the last school years. Also maybe coz he&#8217;s an only child and wasn&#8217;t brought up normally&#8230;<br />
He becomes ego-centric and arrogant but deep down inside, I know that he doesn&#8217;t want to be this person. He didn&#8217;t choose to be like he is at times. Just now, he told me that he knows that he hasn&#8217;t been treating me right but he doesn&#8217;t have intentions to do it on purpose.</p>
<p>I think &#8216;crazy people&#8217; will get better if they get the support and understanding they need without being judged and excluded. I think this is what makes them become crazy!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want to abandon him altogether coz it&#8217;s not good. We haven&#8217;t seen each other for a few months now coz we&#8217;re having time apart after another incident<br /><b>References : </b><br />Experiencing now</p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by jac the hat</title>
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		<dc:creator>jac the hat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a crazy person (mental health dx) and I love a crazy person and am loved back by him. I have been in this sort of caring role a long time and some people just don&#039;t change, I think giving out love unconditionally without expecting change is really hard, and you almost have to be crazy to do it. Or at least have had some breaking  down of the defence system.

 Some people have a notion that no one will ever stay with them and they act out until you do have to leave for your own sanity and then they feel safer as their structure has been maintained -

 Its a difficult area and I think for me the only way to achieve it without going over the edge is to make it about me and my learning and have very good boundaries - There are no excuses for poor behaviour. 

In the past I have counseled peopel with poor boundaries and have only been able to do it by having really good supervision. Dating is different and you are obviously attracted ot soemthign - good for you to know exactly what that somethign is as it might be a self destructive sort of attraction in you to be a &#039;helper &#039; rather than a &#039;lover&#039;.
 I dont know that love is ever about the other person it is always about the one doing the loving. You have to ask yourself if you are capable of loving &#039;crazy&#039;. 

I f the person has a diagnosis and knows that they have difficulties then it should be in some way easier and they need to grow and learn for their own sake. And you have a way in to talk about it. If they are in denial - wow !  &lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a crazy person (mental health dx) and I love a crazy person and am loved back by him. I have been in this sort of caring role a long time and some people just don&#8217;t change, I think giving out love unconditionally without expecting change is really hard, and you almost have to be crazy to do it. Or at least have had some breaking  down of the defence system.</p>
<p> Some people have a notion that no one will ever stay with them and they act out until you do have to leave for your own sanity and then they feel safer as their structure has been maintained -</p>
<p> Its a difficult area and I think for me the only way to achieve it without going over the edge is to make it about me and my learning and have very good boundaries &#8211; There are no excuses for poor behaviour. </p>
<p>In the past I have counseled peopel with poor boundaries and have only been able to do it by having really good supervision. Dating is different and you are obviously attracted ot soemthign &#8211; good for you to know exactly what that somethign is as it might be a self destructive sort of attraction in you to be a &#8216;helper &#8216; rather than a &#8216;lover&#8217;.<br />
 I dont know that love is ever about the other person it is always about the one doing the loving. You have to ask yourself if you are capable of loving &#8216;crazy&#8217;. </p>
<p>I f the person has a diagnosis and knows that they have difficulties then it should be in some way easier and they need to grow and learn for their own sake. And you have a way in to talk about it. If they are in denial &#8211; wow !  <br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Maintain A Beautiful Relationship by Queen of the WAGs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Queen of the WAGs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Where have you been all my life? Lol!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Where have you been all my life? Lol!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by Vera Gabriele</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vera Gabriele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They deserve love like everyone.. it&#039;s not their fault they have a personality disorder. That was not their choice but it would really take a love that gives and asks very little in return to be a partner to such a person. It would take a very emotionally strong person to ever be in a relationship with such a person because otherwise they get emotionally drained and might suffer either physical health problems or develop anxiety disorders or depression themselves.. This is not something everyone can do even if the feelings are there, it&#039;s a very though decision to make to live with such a person. As a nurse one comes across all different cases and has to deal with them. Not everybody is emotionally cut out to  be a nurse either but at least this is a profession.. they can go home when their shift is over and try to live a normal life outside their work place. They are not 24 hours surrounded by a person who suffers from such a mental problem..so working in this field is hard but not as tough as actually being personally involved and having this person as a partner and if you work as a nurse you won&#039;t find any time to just relax and won&#039;t be able to lean on your partner and also show weakness because you will have to be the emotionally strong one at work.. and at home.. that&#039;s too much for most people.. to do that as a job has it&#039;s rewards as well as it&#039;s emotional strain to a degree and it&#039;s a hard job and one has to be compassionate and treat each person with dignity but has to emotionally distance oneself in order to be able to do a job as a nurse.. If this is in your private life it&#039;s a lot harder to emotionally not get involved.. so that is something not many people can do although of course these people do deserve love as everyone else ..&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They deserve love like everyone.. it&#8217;s not their fault they have a personality disorder. That was not their choice but it would really take a love that gives and asks very little in return to be a partner to such a person. It would take a very emotionally strong person to ever be in a relationship with such a person because otherwise they get emotionally drained and might suffer either physical health problems or develop anxiety disorders or depression themselves.. This is not something everyone can do even if the feelings are there, it&#8217;s a very though decision to make to live with such a person. As a nurse one comes across all different cases and has to deal with them. Not everybody is emotionally cut out to  be a nurse either but at least this is a profession.. they can go home when their shift is over and try to live a normal life outside their work place. They are not 24 hours surrounded by a person who suffers from such a mental problem..so working in this field is hard but not as tough as actually being personally involved and having this person as a partner and if you work as a nurse you won&#8217;t find any time to just relax and won&#8217;t be able to lean on your partner and also show weakness because you will have to be the emotionally strong one at work.. and at home.. that&#8217;s too much for most people.. to do that as a job has it&#8217;s rewards as well as it&#8217;s emotional strain to a degree and it&#8217;s a hard job and one has to be compassionate and treat each person with dignity but has to emotionally distance oneself in order to be able to do a job as a nurse.. If this is in your private life it&#8217;s a lot harder to emotionally not get involved.. so that is something not many people can do although of course these people do deserve love as everyone else ..<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Maintain A Beautiful Relationship by oh no you didnt!!!</title>
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		<dc:creator>oh no you didnt!!!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you dont have to give them up forever or all the time. just while shes there. but if she is gone for a few nights like for business appointments elsewhere then you can trap your farts when shes not there.

just make sure she doesnt see them&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you dont have to give them up forever or all the time. just while shes there. but if she is gone for a few nights like for business appointments elsewhere then you can trap your farts when shes not there.</p>
<p>just make sure she doesnt see them<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by foo_crazy</title>
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		<dc:creator>foo_crazy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a personality disorder that takes a toll on my bf, all I can tell you that everyone deserves love, particularly those struggling with a disorder of some kind, because without my bf&#039;s constant support and encouragement I wouldn&#039;t have gone to the councillor I wouldn&#039;t be getting better. If he left me I probably would have commited suicide or overdoesed. I know it&#039;s not easy for you but when you are not together take time out for yourself, even if you feel like it when he is there, let him know your just stepping out and will return soon and go do something to relax and revitalise. My bf and I have been going out for three years and due to a long distance relationship we only saw each other on weekends and talked almost every day on the phone. so he got to have a break from my demanding nature. It might be helpful to talk to a councillor so you can learn some coping skills, or at least just have a trusted person to vent to so you don&#039;t bottle up your feelings and then take them out on him. Also you can say no! you have a right to say no if you feel he is requesting or demanding things of you that you don&#039;t want to give. He may get upset but try to explain your situation so he understands what it&#039;s like for you but in a gentle and non-judgemental way, eg instead of using the words &quot;you do this&quot; and &quot;you make me feel this way&quot;...instaed try to focus on the situationand how it effects you for example &quot;When you want something I like it when you ask me but when you give me the silent treatment I feel....I don&#039;t like it when this happens ... be straight with him but own your feelings, he cannot make you feel something it&#039;s your choice, just as his reaction is his choice.
good luck to both of you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a personality disorder that takes a toll on my bf, all I can tell you that everyone deserves love, particularly those struggling with a disorder of some kind, because without my bf&#8217;s constant support and encouragement I wouldn&#8217;t have gone to the councillor I wouldn&#8217;t be getting better. If he left me I probably would have commited suicide or overdoesed. I know it&#8217;s not easy for you but when you are not together take time out for yourself, even if you feel like it when he is there, let him know your just stepping out and will return soon and go do something to relax and revitalise. My bf and I have been going out for three years and due to a long distance relationship we only saw each other on weekends and talked almost every day on the phone. so he got to have a break from my demanding nature. It might be helpful to talk to a councillor so you can learn some coping skills, or at least just have a trusted person to vent to so you don&#8217;t bottle up your feelings and then take them out on him. Also you can say no! you have a right to say no if you feel he is requesting or demanding things of you that you don&#8217;t want to give. He may get upset but try to explain your situation so he understands what it&#8217;s like for you but in a gentle and non-judgemental way, eg instead of using the words &quot;you do this&quot; and &quot;you make me feel this way&quot;&#8230;instaed try to focus on the situationand how it effects you for example &quot;When you want something I like it when you ask me but when you give me the silent treatment I feel&#8230;.I don&#8217;t like it when this happens &#8230; be straight with him but own your feelings, he cannot make you feel something it&#8217;s your choice, just as his reaction is his choice.<br />
good luck to both of you.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Maintain A Beautiful Relationship by tati</title>
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		<dc:creator>tati</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow......................&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by woda</title>
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		<dc:creator>woda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;ve already answered the question. But an intervention to treat the disorder is recommended. Behavioral psychology offers much in that direction. I took a class in it last spring, and was skeptical at first,but with reflection I&#039;ve realized what a profound effect it has on people with all kinds of pathologies. Behavior modification is at the root of B. P. With a little study, you could learn how to effectively deal with the passive aggressive strategies employed by his disorder, and maybe even completely neutralize it&#039;s influence. It is not an easy fix, but with time and patience, I believe you would both benefit from its application. The web site is below.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://www.DickMalott.com   Dick Malott is a Phd in Behavioral Psychology. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve already answered the question. But an intervention to treat the disorder is recommended. Behavioral psychology offers much in that direction. I took a class in it last spring, and was skeptical at first,but with reflection I&#8217;ve realized what a profound effect it has on people with all kinds of pathologies. Behavior modification is at the root of B. P. With a little study, you could learn how to effectively deal with the passive aggressive strategies employed by his disorder, and maybe even completely neutralize it&#8217;s influence. It is not an easy fix, but with time and patience, I believe you would both benefit from its application. The web site is below.<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.DickMalott.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.DickMalott.com</a>   Dick Malott is a Phd in Behavioral Psychology.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Maintain A Beautiful Relationship by Paddy McShamrock</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paddy McShamrock</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Take her parents and her out to dinner at a really posh restaurant and start doing all your habits at once. If she&#039;s still at the table after an hour, marry her!!!!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Take her parents and her out to dinner at a really posh restaurant and start doing all your habits at once. If she&#8217;s still at the table after an hour, marry her!!!!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by old_woman_84</title>
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		<dc:creator>old_woman_84</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well,  in this I see 2 kinds of love.  Yes,  I could love this person--but not LOVE this person.  And also--&quot;I&quot; could not get too close--It would damage me.  I tend to give too much and take myself down.  So if  you are strong enough--go for it--because they need love and understanding but just take of yourself first.  Good luck to you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well,  in this I see 2 kinds of love.  Yes,  I could love this person&#8211;but not LOVE this person.  And also&#8211;&quot;I&quot; could not get too close&#8211;It would damage me.  I tend to give too much and take myself down.  So if  you are strong enough&#8211;go for it&#8211;because they need love and understanding but just take of yourself first.  Good luck to you.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Maintain A Beautiful Relationship by Matrix says 4 points to F1 glory</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matrix says 4 points to F1 glory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>if she has low self esteem those habits won&#039;t bother her at all. Good luck sir.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>if she has low self esteem those habits won&#8217;t bother her at all. Good luck sir.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by sportstersweetie</title>
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		<dc:creator>sportstersweetie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I&#039;m sure you mean well, even if you were the best shrink in the world, you would not be able to give him the kind of help that he needs.  It sounds like he may be taking advantage of you.  You are too emotionally involved, and it makes it too easy for him to ignore his problems and avoid the kind of work it&#039;s going to take for someone like him to cope with his problems.  Your heart is in the right place, but you don&#039;t owe this man anything - you should not sacrifice your happiness to take care of him.  You most certainly don&#039;t deserve to be abused!  Your generous heart will eventually find someone who will truly appreciate it.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I&#8217;m sure you mean well, even if you were the best shrink in the world, you would not be able to give him the kind of help that he needs.  It sounds like he may be taking advantage of you.  You are too emotionally involved, and it makes it too easy for him to ignore his problems and avoid the kind of work it&#8217;s going to take for someone like him to cope with his problems.  Your heart is in the right place, but you don&#8217;t owe this man anything &#8211; you should not sacrifice your happiness to take care of him.  You most certainly don&#8217;t deserve to be abused!  Your generous heart will eventually find someone who will truly appreciate it.  <br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Three Rings Of Relationships by nikkita</title>
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		<dc:creator>nikkita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Normal to question a relationship any time.   Because as time goes  we are growing and changing  with the events in our lives.
A child changes a lot the relation.   Maybe  only maybe is your inner wish to get married. Make both a compromise.
You have to check your feelings towards him, talk some friend to clear your mind.    Apparently everything is ok.   Maybe the routine invaded  your life.  You must have a life aside.   Work, or other activity.  Make changes.   
Maybe you don t need to question.   Everything seems perfect, specially if he can be also a friend it s great.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Normal to question a relationship any time.   Because as time goes  we are growing and changing  with the events in our lives.<br />
A child changes a lot the relation.   Maybe  only maybe is your inner wish to get married. Make both a compromise.<br />
You have to check your feelings towards him, talk some friend to clear your mind.    Apparently everything is ok.   Maybe the routine invaded  your life.  You must have a life aside.   Work, or other activity.  Make changes.<br />
Maybe you don t need to question.   Everything seems perfect, specially if he can be also a friend it s great.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Maintain A Beautiful Relationship by burtongrl</title>
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		<dc:creator>burtongrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 13:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you&#039;re my dream man!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you&#8217;re my dream man!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on 9 Reasons you may not be getting the love you deserve by jessica b</title>
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		<dc:creator>jessica b</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 06:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Do crazy people deserve love too?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Ok, so I&#039;ve been dating this guy for about fours months, after getting to know him better, I realized he is passive aggressive, I am a nurse so by nature, I want to help. He really takes a toll on me emotionally, but I know he does the things he does because of his personality disorder, I don&#039;t want to be emotionally abuse by him, but I want to help. What should I do, or what can I do. I have already approached him, pointing out his passive aggressive ways, but I think that was like a swift kick in the nuts for his delicate ego. I&#039;m at a standstill because I don&#039;t want to abandom him like everyone else has, I&#039;d like to give him the support he needs, but I don&#039;t know how to do this safely. I&#039;d like to just walk away and erase all the negativety but I know in my heart he was placed in my way for a reason. Would you love a crazy person? or can you even love a crazy person?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Do crazy people deserve love too?</b><br />Ok, so I&#8217;ve been dating this guy for about fours months, after getting to know him better, I realized he is passive aggressive, I am a nurse so by nature, I want to help. He really takes a toll on me emotionally, but I know he does the things he does because of his personality disorder, I don&#8217;t want to be emotionally abuse by him, but I want to help. What should I do, or what can I do. I have already approached him, pointing out his passive aggressive ways, but I think that was like a swift kick in the nuts for his delicate ego. I&#8217;m at a standstill because I don&#8217;t want to abandom him like everyone else has, I&#8217;d like to give him the support he needs, but I don&#8217;t know how to do this safely. I&#8217;d like to just walk away and erase all the negativety but I know in my heart he was placed in my way for a reason. Would you love a crazy person? or can you even love a crazy person?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Three Rings Of Relationships by blj2112</title>
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		<dc:creator>blj2112</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 06:07:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Is it normal to question your relationship after three years?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I wear an engagement ring but neither one of us wants to get married.  I don&#039;t feel like he loves me even though he says it all the time and he does go out of his way to do nice things for me.  I guess what I need to know is, what is normal and what is to be expected, this is the longest relationship I have ever been in and we have a child together.  I don&#039;t want to be wishy washy one day and love him the next.  He is a great friend and I can talk to him about anything but that &quot;something&quot; is missing.  So any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Is it normal to question your relationship after three years?</b><br />Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I wear an engagement ring but neither one of us wants to get married.  I don&#8217;t feel like he loves me even though he says it all the time and he does go out of his way to do nice things for me.  I guess what I need to know is, what is normal and what is to be expected, this is the longest relationship I have ever been in and we have a child together.  I don&#8217;t want to be wishy washy one day and love him the next.  He is a great friend and I can talk to him about anything but that &quot;something&quot; is missing.  So any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How To Maintain A Beautiful Relationship by GarlicMan</title>
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		<dc:creator>GarlicMan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 06:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Do you think those habits will make it hard for me to maintain a relationship?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I always love to trap my own farts under the blanket and sniff them, you know, the good ol&#039; Dutch oven! however, I can&#039;t stand the smell of others&#039; farts.

also I enjoy playing with my fresh boogers, I roll and knead them into small balls and play with them like playdough regularly.

I&#039;m about to start dating a beautiful girl that I really like, and I&#039;m worried that she&#039;ll ditch me if she finds out about these habits of mine!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Do you think those habits will make it hard for me to maintain a relationship?</b><br />I always love to trap my own farts under the blanket and sniff them, you know, the good ol&#8217; Dutch oven! however, I can&#8217;t stand the smell of others&#8217; farts.</p>
<p>also I enjoy playing with my fresh boogers, I roll and knead them into small balls and play with them like playdough regularly.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m about to start dating a beautiful girl that I really like, and I&#8217;m worried that she&#8217;ll ditch me if she finds out about these habits of mine!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by Kassandra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kassandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aww. Well I think you should try to get closer to her. If you guys have myspace or facebook or something of the sort, request her and start talking to her. Ask for her AIM, or MSn or something. Then you can get to know each other. It&#039;s possible that she can develop feelings for you. 

Then, you can tell her how you really feel.

Good luck and I hope this helps. ;)&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww. Well I think you should try to get closer to her. If you guys have myspace or facebook or something of the sort, request her and start talking to her. Ask for her AIM, or MSn or something. Then you can get to know each other. It&#8217;s possible that she can develop feelings for you. </p>
<p>Then, you can tell her how you really feel.</p>
<p>Good luck and I hope this helps. <img src='http://www.cheatingtruth.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> <br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have some suggustions
-A note in a locker. If she doesn&#039;t like you you can just pretend it was a fake one.
-wait until valentines day and then try to romance her
-get one of your or her friends to find out if she likes you&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have some suggustions<br />
-A note in a locker. If she doesn&#8217;t like you you can just pretend it was a fake one.<br />
-wait until valentines day and then try to romance her<br />
-get one of your or her friends to find out if she likes you<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You by stellina</title>
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		<dc:creator>stellina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>... then you must make them speak so much ... and then embrace them, then kiss and then relaxes .. please do fiki fiki and then you can generate a child 
Hello Kiss&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230; then you must make them speak so much &#8230; and then embrace them, then kiss and then relaxes .. please do fiki fiki and then you can generate a child<br />
Hello Kiss<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by panda!!15</title>
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		<dc:creator>panda!!15</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i know how that feels been there a time or too....yea it sucks but just try and see how she feels....about you :D&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;i just know....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i know how that feels been there a time or too&#8230;.yea it sucks but just try and see how she feels&#8230;.about you <img src='http://www.cheatingtruth.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> <br /><b>References : </b><br />i just know&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You by Maxine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maxine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i have the sims 2 pets. on the neighbourhood veiw thingie, type in, &quot; boolProp testingcheatsenabled true &quot; without the &quot; you have to do it like that or else it wont work... then, once you fin to people, then press shift, then click on the person who isnt selectable, then you can  make them selectable, (theres a button). click and drag their realtionship to100, and get them talking, once &quot;share intrests&quot; is part of the selection, press that. once they fall in love they can do anything, (after you make them kiss). Your can do the play in bed thing or you can shift click on the woman/man, whichever you want and then choose, &quot;spawn&quot; then there are lots of choices just go to &quot;tombstone of L&amp;D&quot; , a tombstone will pop up. click that and then pres &quot;more&quot; until you see the option, &quot;make me pregnant&quot; choose that , then go back the tombstone a choose, &quot;speed up my pregnancy&quot;, you&#039;ll have the baby in a couple miniutes from there. *I dont know if this will work for you, what versiond o you have*???&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i have the sims 2 pets. on the neighbourhood veiw thingie, type in, &quot; boolProp testingcheatsenabled true &quot; without the &quot; you have to do it like that or else it wont work&#8230; then, once you fin to people, then press shift, then click on the person who isnt selectable, then you can  make them selectable, (theres a button). click and drag their realtionship to100, and get them talking, once &quot;share intrests&quot; is part of the selection, press that. once they fall in love they can do anything, (after you make them kiss). Your can do the play in bed thing or you can shift click on the woman/man, whichever you want and then choose, &quot;spawn&quot; then there are lots of choices just go to &quot;tombstone of L&amp;D&quot; , a tombstone will pop up. click that and then pres &quot;more&quot; until you see the option, &quot;make me pregnant&quot; choose that , then go back the tombstone a choose, &quot;speed up my pregnancy&quot;, you&#8217;ll have the baby in a couple miniutes from there. *I dont know if this will work for you, what versiond o you have*???<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:15:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>let her know how you feel, if you dont you&#039;ll never know&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>let her know how you feel, if you dont you&#8217;ll never know<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Talk to her.
See if she actually likes having conversations with you.
I&#039;m sure you would be able to tell.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Talk to her.<br />
See if she actually likes having conversations with you.<br />
I&#8217;m sure you would be able to tell.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Single Parents &#8211; Thinking of Dating Again? by Rocksteady</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rocksteady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Join an accredited dating Agency&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Join an accredited dating Agency<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You by jjm</title>
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		<dc:creator>jjm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you dont need to have a baby just to get in bed all you have to do is to get them to marry each other then you can tell then both to to to the bed and then they will do thing in the bed&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;my sister</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you dont need to have a baby just to get in bed all you have to do is to get them to marry each other then you can tell then both to to to the bed and then they will do thing in the bed<br /><b>References : </b><br />my sister</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by Sean P</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sean P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Share sippy cups together&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Share sippy cups together<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Single Parents &#8211; Thinking of Dating Again? by KLW</title>
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		<dc:creator>KLW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so sorry to hear about your heart ache. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through. My advice is to take it day by day. You never know when that special some one will show up and pick you up off your feet. &lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so sorry to hear about your heart ache. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through. My advice is to take it day by day. You never know when that special some one will show up and pick you up off your feet. <br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You by J K</title>
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		<dc:creator>J K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You put them in a room seal it off so there are no door and put afire place(romantic) in that room and then put plants everywhere(to set a jungle scene) fill the room up with them and then make the game fast forward then  go get a snack like a sandwich then come back and they will be in love&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You put them in a room seal it off so there are no door and put afire place(romantic) in that room and then put plants everywhere(to set a jungle scene) fill the room up with them and then make the game fast forward then  go get a snack like a sandwich then come back and they will be in love<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Tell if She is Really Committed to the Relationship by fated82</title>
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		<dc:creator>fated82</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe this blog might have the answer. Another way is to communicate with him and see if he is interested in communicating.If they do feel irriated because you want to build the relationship, maybe he is not committed enough. &lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://mindchic.net</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe this blog might have the answer. Another way is to communicate with him and see if he is interested in communicating.If they do feel irriated because you want to build the relationship, maybe he is not committed enough. <br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://mindchic.net" rel="nofollow">http://mindchic.net</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by Dave</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I thought you meant Multiple Sclerosis...&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought you meant Multiple Sclerosis&#8230;<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Single Parents &#8211; Thinking of Dating Again? by delicata411</title>
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		<dc:creator>delicata411</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, what a tough tough time for you.  I feel for ya!.  The key thing to remember is Mom always knows best.  Not YOUR mom, but you, as mom. If you feel your ready to start dating again, then by all means go ahead.  You deserve to be happy and to settle down, just make sure you don&#039;t settle.  Find that person that makes you and your Son happy.  The great thing about kids is that they are VERY understanding and forgiving.  He will take too your new guy friend prolly faster that you.  Make sure you don&#039;t make a big deal out of it before you know where its going.  The last thing you want is a bunch of men going in and out of his life.  I wish you the best, good luck!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, what a tough tough time for you.  I feel for ya!.  The key thing to remember is Mom always knows best.  Not YOUR mom, but you, as mom. If you feel your ready to start dating again, then by all means go ahead.  You deserve to be happy and to settle down, just make sure you don&#8217;t settle.  Find that person that makes you and your Son happy.  The great thing about kids is that they are VERY understanding and forgiving.  He will take too your new guy friend prolly faster that you.  Make sure you don&#8217;t make a big deal out of it before you know where its going.  The last thing you want is a bunch of men going in and out of his life.  I wish you the best, good luck!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You by Clauskii</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clauskii</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:09:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is it sims one or two.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is it sims one or two.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You by Celia S B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Celia S B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 19:07:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;How do you make your Sims fall in love?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I always start with talking, then they friedly hug and intimate hug and slow dance and then I start with the kissing but sometimes when you passionate kiss one of them doesn&#039;t want it and it ruins everything. What order should I do things in to make them fall in love and want to have a baby? How soon can I do &quot;Play in bed&quot;? Please help!
How do they get married?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>How do you make your Sims fall in love?</b><br />I always start with talking, then they friedly hug and intimate hug and slow dance and then I start with the kissing but sometimes when you passionate kiss one of them doesn&#8217;t want it and it ruins everything. What order should I do things in to make them fall in love and want to have a baby? How soon can I do &quot;Play in bed&quot;? Please help!<br />
How do they get married?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Single Parents &#8211; Thinking of Dating Again? by Clicks are so highschool</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clicks are so highschool</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 19:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Single Parents - How do you get over your previous relationship &amp; start dating again?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I married young, and on our honeymoon I conceived a beautiful little boy, who is the light of my life.
I found out my Husband had been cheating on me, for a rather long time. Basically he lived another life behind my back. I was hurt obviously, and moved out. We did try and work things out, but when our son was 3 months old, my Husband committed suicide.

I&#039;m now 22 with a 3yo, and alone. I&#039;ve been in counselling and handling life as a single mum find, but lately I&#039;ve become lonely and started noticing the opposite sex again.
I met a nice man and he asked me out numerous times, but I can&#039;t bring myself to go. I feel like I am betraying my late Husband, then that he will cheat on me, leave me alone, or worse that I&#039;m letting my son down.
I&#039;ve talked with my Mum about this, but she thinks I should be single and raise my son alone. Very old fashion beliefs.
I don&#039;t want to let go, but I don&#039;t want to be alone forever. I want to have more children, and live the happily ever after.
Yet at the same time I want to move on.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Single Parents &#8211; How do you get over your previous relationship &#038; start dating again?</b><br />I married young, and on our honeymoon I conceived a beautiful little boy, who is the light of my life.<br />
I found out my Husband had been cheating on me, for a rather long time. Basically he lived another life behind my back. I was hurt obviously, and moved out. We did try and work things out, but when our son was 3 months old, my Husband committed suicide.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m now 22 with a 3yo, and alone. I&#8217;ve been in counselling and handling life as a single mum find, but lately I&#8217;ve become lonely and started noticing the opposite sex again.<br />
I met a nice man and he asked me out numerous times, but I can&#8217;t bring myself to go. I feel like I am betraying my late Husband, then that he will cheat on me, leave me alone, or worse that I&#8217;m letting my son down.<br />
I&#8217;ve talked with my Mum about this, but she thinks I should be single and raise my son alone. Very old fashion beliefs.<br />
I don&#8217;t want to let go, but I don&#8217;t want to be alone forever. I want to have more children, and live the happily ever after.<br />
Yet at the same time I want to move on.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Single Biggest Killer of Relationships by alan i</title>
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		<dc:creator>alan i</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 19:07:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;MS Relationship problem. What do I do?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yes, im in Middle school. I know exactly what every single adult reading this first sentence is thinking &quot;too young and immature&quot;. Well  this in fact is not true for my case. I am actually very mature for my age. I walk around thinking everything through before I do them, firstly. I think about the more important matters instead of being cool (have allot of friends though). I stand up for any of my friends in times of need, write quotes about love (-example:Love is the motivational force of the people of Earth, but yet it&#039;s the biggest killer in the World-) I play sports, but love spending time outside in the cold, alone, and think things through. 
anyway- I really like this girl, but I don&#039;t know how to express my feelings to her. I believe she likes someone else, but you never know right? I think about her everyday, and night. How do I tell her I like her? I am really scared (not shy) cause I know if I fail I will heartbroken.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>MS Relationship problem. What do I do?</b><br />Yes, im in Middle school. I know exactly what every single adult reading this first sentence is thinking &quot;too young and immature&quot;. Well  this in fact is not true for my case. I am actually very mature for my age. I walk around thinking everything through before I do them, firstly. I think about the more important matters instead of being cool (have allot of friends though). I stand up for any of my friends in times of need, write quotes about love (-example:Love is the motivational force of the people of Earth, but yet it&#8217;s the biggest killer in the World-) I play sports, but love spending time outside in the cold, alone, and think things through.<br />
anyway- I really like this girl, but I don&#8217;t know how to express my feelings to her. I believe she likes someone else, but you never know right? I think about her everyday, and night. How do I tell her I like her? I am really scared (not shy) cause I know if I fail I will heartbroken.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Tell if She is Really Committed to the Relationship by Susie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 19:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;How can i tell if my boyfriend is really committed to our relationship?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;He lives in mexico and we just started dating for 2 months now. Sometimes i feel that i take it more serious then he does how can i determine if he really is taking it serious
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>How can i tell if my boyfriend is really committed to our relationship?</b><br />He lives in mexico and we just started dating for 2 months now. Sometimes i feel that i take it more serious then he does how can i determine if he really is taking it serious</p>
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		<title>Comment on Building Relationships, Commitment and Love &#8211; Starting With a by mrbigshot</title>
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		<dc:creator>mrbigshot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 22:24:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All of the questions you asked, the answer is yes. Those are typical situations when someone breaks up with someone. Commitment issues, boredom, other girls, rebound. Same issue. You are doing the right thing, moving on. If you both stay with each other, there would be no room for growth. You can be friends, but definitely not a couple.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://www.selfhelpbooks.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All of the questions you asked, the answer is yes. Those are typical situations when someone breaks up with someone. Commitment issues, boredom, other girls, rebound. Same issue. You are doing the right thing, moving on. If you both stay with each other, there would be no room for growth. You can be friends, but definitely not a couple.<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.selfhelpbooks.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.selfhelpbooks.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Building Relationships, Commitment and Love &#8211; Starting With a by Erica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 15:22:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Does He Love Me? Or Commitment Issue?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half. We are both 20. He stayed with my family over the summer because he needed a place. (His family isn&#039;t very stable and he has almost no money. He was taking online classes and interning, so my place worked well). We had lots of fun on vacation and everything was fine. He always said we were perfect for each other and he had hinted at marrying me down the road. He&#039;s always been excited about the idea of kids. And he has always been so caring, nice, and dedicated. Near the end of the summer, though, (it seems after my older brother&#039;s wedding) he was getting a little more easily annoyed with me. Then, he had to leave 2 weeks before I did to go back to school (for job training).

About a week into school he broke up with me because he felt tied down. He was saying things like he doesn&#039;t make new friends and our next step was marriage, etc. I couldn&#039;t understand why if you love someone (which he said he still loved me and kept hinting at getting back together in the future) why you couldn&#039;t work through it together. He also didn&#039;t want to do things with me (not even on my birthday) and felt guilty for it. 2 days later he wanted me back. The next day he said he made a mistake in wanting me back. A week later I find out that he and another girl had a crush on each other and he was hiding it for days, even though I asked him several times if there was another girl. (they met in the 2 weeks he was at school for job training)

He claims his crush happened after we broke up and didn&#039;t tell me because he didn&#039;t want me to think it was the reason for the break up. (I later found out that he wanted me back because he thought being with her was a mistake and he missed me). Also, now he says that, because he likes her, he can&#039;t say that he loves me anymore. Here&#039;s the thing: they aren&#039;t allowed to date because of work. So, they are just hanging out a lot. Watching a walk to remember, snuggled underneath a blanket, you know, normal stuff. ;) But, there has been nothing physical between them... that anyone has seen anyway.

He told me he still likes her, but it doesn&#039;t feel the same as when he and I started dating. And he said he doesn&#039;t want to be with anybody right now, even though he likes her (and I assume still has some feelings for me). He also has posted twitters/facebook statuses that are lyrics to love songs and sat with me and 2 other people (1 of them was his friend) at dinner instead of waiting to sit at a different table with his new crush. (most awkward dinner ever!) Also, if he really wanted a relationship with her, they could work it out with their boss and relocate one of them.

So, is he scared of commitment? Did he get bored with me, like at the end of the summer before he even met the other girl? Is she just rebound? Or did he leave me for her? I have gotten a billion mixed signals and am beyond confused. I don&#039;t talk to him anymore, though. I am trying to move on. But we live in the same building so he sees me like everyday.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Does He Love Me? Or Commitment Issue?</b><br />My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and a half. We are both 20. He stayed with my family over the summer because he needed a place. (His family isn&#8217;t very stable and he has almost no money. He was taking online classes and interning, so my place worked well). We had lots of fun on vacation and everything was fine. He always said we were perfect for each other and he had hinted at marrying me down the road. He&#8217;s always been excited about the idea of kids. And he has always been so caring, nice, and dedicated. Near the end of the summer, though, (it seems after my older brother&#8217;s wedding) he was getting a little more easily annoyed with me. Then, he had to leave 2 weeks before I did to go back to school (for job training).</p>
<p>About a week into school he broke up with me because he felt tied down. He was saying things like he doesn&#8217;t make new friends and our next step was marriage, etc. I couldn&#8217;t understand why if you love someone (which he said he still loved me and kept hinting at getting back together in the future) why you couldn&#8217;t work through it together. He also didn&#8217;t want to do things with me (not even on my birthday) and felt guilty for it. 2 days later he wanted me back. The next day he said he made a mistake in wanting me back. A week later I find out that he and another girl had a crush on each other and he was hiding it for days, even though I asked him several times if there was another girl. (they met in the 2 weeks he was at school for job training)</p>
<p>He claims his crush happened after we broke up and didn&#8217;t tell me because he didn&#8217;t want me to think it was the reason for the break up. (I later found out that he wanted me back because he thought being with her was a mistake and he missed me). Also, now he says that, because he likes her, he can&#8217;t say that he loves me anymore. Here&#8217;s the thing: they aren&#8217;t allowed to date because of work. So, they are just hanging out a lot. Watching a walk to remember, snuggled underneath a blanket, you know, normal stuff. <img src='http://www.cheatingtruth.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  But, there has been nothing physical between them&#8230; that anyone has seen anyway.</p>
<p>He told me he still likes her, but it doesn&#8217;t feel the same as when he and I started dating. And he said he doesn&#8217;t want to be with anybody right now, even though he likes her (and I assume still has some feelings for me). He also has posted twitters/facebook statuses that are lyrics to love songs and sat with me and 2 other people (1 of them was his friend) at dinner instead of waiting to sit at a different table with his new crush. (most awkward dinner ever!) Also, if he really wanted a relationship with her, they could work it out with their boss and relocate one of them.</p>
<p>So, is he scared of commitment? Did he get bored with me, like at the end of the summer before he even met the other girl? Is she just rebound? Or did he leave me for her? I have gotten a billion mixed signals and am beyond confused. I don&#8217;t talk to him anymore, though. I am trying to move on. But we live in the same building so he sees me like everyday.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Statistics On Teenage Relationships by Ali</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:35:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>95%!!!!!!!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
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		<title>Comment on Statistics On Teenage Relationships by bigd07ca</title>
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		<dc:creator>bigd07ca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Teenage when?

13-16 = 8%
16-18 = 20%
19    = 25%

no link but trust the obvious.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
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<p>13-16 = 8%<br />
16-18 = 20%<br />
19    = 25%</p>
<p>no link but trust the obvious.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Statistics On Teenage Relationships by bonita</title>
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		<dc:creator>bonita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:31:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>20% maybe&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>20% maybe<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Statistics On Teenage Relationships by thisismalissa</title>
		<link>http://www.cheatingtruth.com/relationships/statistics-on-teenage-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-2261</link>
		<dc:creator>thisismalissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>50% TO 75%. JUST GUESSING.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>50% TO 75%. JUST GUESSING.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Statistics On Teenage Relationships by 3DDD</title>
		<link>http://www.cheatingtruth.com/relationships/statistics-on-teenage-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-2260</link>
		<dc:creator>3DDD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry I dont have any stats or links to go to but the people that I went to school with and kept up with only two couples stayed togeather until one of their mates died.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry I dont have any stats or links to go to but the people that I went to school with and kept up with only two couples stayed togeather until one of their mates died.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Statistics On Teenage Relationships by single baby momma</title>
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		<dc:creator>single baby momma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 14:25:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On tv or in real life???&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
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		<title>Comment on Statistics On Teenage Relationships by sireatsalot99</title>
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		<dc:creator>sireatsalot99</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 07:23:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;What percentage of teenage love relationships work out?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I would like actual statistics and/or a link to this information.  I cant seem to find any reliable information.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>What percentage of teenage love relationships work out?</b><br />I would like actual statistics and/or a link to this information.  I cant seem to find any reliable information.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by simplistics</title>
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		<dc:creator>simplistics</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes it is&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Layla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Layla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:38:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are many poker blogs out there that can help answer your question better, such as http://sponsoredpokerpro.com/. Blogs like this offer information on the best poker plays and where you can get the greatest value for your money with online poker. Of course it would help to practice at home with friends, or visit a casino and not to bet too much, so you can try your hand at it and learn the rules.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://sponsoredpokerpro.com/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are many poker blogs out there that can help answer your question better, such as <a href="http://sponsoredpokerpro.com/"  rel='nofollow'  rel="nofollow">http://sponsoredpokerpro.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Yoda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yoda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Poker is a game of skill and the less experience you have, the more difficult it is to make money. You have done well to read up on it but I would suggest signing up to a poker room of choice and start playing really small limits or freerolls.

For Freerolls, check out the links below as they offer more money than any other:
http://irakeback.co.uk/blog/freerolls 

Set yourself a limit if you decide to play cash and try to build your bankroll rather than continuing to deposit cash (unless you are rich)

One increase the amount of money you have won (bankroll) then you can start to play higher stakes.
Continue to read and learn - that&#039;s the best advice I can give.

If you play a lot, I would suggest signing up to receive rakeback from a poker room to increase the amount of money you earn. When you play online poker, your chosen poker room will take a cut of every pot, the percentage is roughly around 5%. This is called the rake and the only way any poker room makes money.

To sign up and earn your rake back, check out http://www.irakeback.co.uk/ for International poker sites with the best bonusses when you sign up.

Good luck!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Poker is a game of skill and the less experience you have, the more difficult it is to make money. You have done well to read up on it but I would suggest signing up to a poker room of choice and start playing really small limits or freerolls.</p>
<p>For Freerolls, check out the links below as they offer more money than any other:<br />
<a href="http://irakeback.co.uk/blog/freerolls"  rel='nofollow'  rel="nofollow">http://www.irakeback.co.uk/</a> for International poker sites with the best bonusses when you sign up.</p>
<p>Good luck!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Richard Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:34:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its very good that you have read the books about this.
Yes play online is the best option and as your are new should play the free poker games and when you are fully confident you can play for real money.
Making money is totally depend on your playing skills and experience. Many people makes good money by playing poker games. 
I&#039;d like to recommend you Cirrus Casino - http://www.cirruscasino.net where you can play poker games for free and real money. They also offers huge bonuses and promotions for new players.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its very good that you have read the books about this.<br />
Yes play online is the best option and as your are new should play the free poker games and when you are fully confident you can play for real money.<br />
Making money is totally depend on your playing skills and experience. Many people makes good money by playing poker games.<br />
I&#8217;d like to recommend you Cirrus Casino &#8211; <a href="http://www.cirruscasino.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.cirruscasino.net</a> where you can play poker games for free and real money. They also offers huge bonuses and promotions for new players.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by vandelay industries</title>
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		<dc:creator>vandelay industries</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:32:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the skill of players online is much much better than live.  I can&#039;t stress that enough.  Someone who crushes live and tries to play the same stakes on line will get chewed up so quick.  Online is more of a math game.  If you have advanced math poker skills, give it a shot. If not, live is much easier to make money, and more fun.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the skill of players online is much much better than live.  I can&#8217;t stress that enough.  Someone who crushes live and tries to play the same stakes on line will get chewed up so quick.  Online is more of a math game.  If you have advanced math poker skills, give it a shot. If not, live is much easier to make money, and more fun.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Dr.Robert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dr.Robert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>not if your winning.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>not if your winning.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by the mystery wanker</title>
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		<dc:creator>the mystery wanker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very difficult unless you have real talent.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Freda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Freda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not that difficult if you know the right tips and tricks on playing poker&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://www.casinostoplayat.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not that difficult if you know the right tips and tricks on playing poker<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.casinostoplayat.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.casinostoplayat.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Evie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:24:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>poker is a skill game no luok in it at all you get good you get pid as simpl as that leran the game insightout go to forums talk to players you will get good that way and yes you can make a living from it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;www.blackjake.net</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>poker is a skill game no luok in it at all you get good you get pid as simpl as that leran the game insightout go to forums talk to players you will get good that way and yes you can make a living from it.<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.blackjake.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.blackjake.net</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Royce</title>
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		<dc:creator>Royce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are sites that will give you free money usually $50 to play with at the leading online poker rooms (Full Tilt, Pokerstars etc.). http://www.pokerstrategy.com/uIVQI3 is such a site they provide strategy articles, videos and live coaching sessions. It is free to join and they also provide a free $50 to start providing you can pass their poker quiz. If you are serious about getting good then this is an ideal place to start. They also offer rakeback as well. Their coaches are big winners in the online games. 

Unforunately they dont accept americans so If you are american you can also try http://www.freepokercash.org&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are sites that will give you free money usually $50 to play with at the leading online poker rooms (Full Tilt, Pokerstars etc.). <a href="http://www.pokerstrategy.com/uIVQI3"  rel='nofollow'  rel="nofollow">http://www.freepokercash.org</a><br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Richard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:20:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you&#039;ve read the right books (2+2 Books mostly) it isn&#039;t hard after you do it the right way. Start small. Learn to profit from bad players. Learn to develop a bankroll. There are great bankroll guides out there that teach you to play the right bonuses so you can make extra money on top of what you make at the tables. The site listed below has a lot of great information, especially if you are in the US.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://www.ultimatepokerbankroll.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ve read the right books (2+2 Books mostly) it isn&#8217;t hard after you do it the right way. Start small. Learn to profit from bad players. Learn to develop a bankroll. There are great bankroll guides out there that teach you to play the right bonuses so you can make extra money on top of what you make at the tables. The site listed below has a lot of great information, especially if you are in the US.<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.ultimatepokerbankroll.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.ultimatepokerbankroll.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Vegas Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vegas Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I read somewhere that 95% of people who play poker are losing players overall. So you have to realize going into it, if you want to just turn a profit, you have to be in the top 5% of players in the world. That&#039;s quite a feat. 

I guess I&#039;d ask what you think &quot;good&quot; money is. In my opinion, it takes only a moderate amount of skill to make a little money (and I do mean &quot;little&quot;) at the micro limit games. Once you get into the low limits where a person could actually make a decent amount of money, even if that is just a couple hundred bucks a week, you&#039;re playing mostly against decent players, and you need to be in that top 5% to turn a consistent profit. When you step up to the limits where a person can realistically make a living wage (say $750 or more a week), then you&#039;re going to be sitting at tables where most of the other people are profitable and a good amount of them are professionals. If you want to consistently profit in these games, you need to really be a top tier player.

That being said, if you&#039;ve never played for money before, online is a great place to start. Almost no live casinos have no limit tables less than $1/$2, meaning you need realistically need $500 in your pocket just to sit down. Online, you can sit in a cash game with .01/.02 limits, meaning you only need 5 bucks. So you tell me, having never played for real money before, would you rather risk $5 or $500? The only other place to play for real money but really low limits is with your friends. Organizing a nickel and dime game with your friends, or a tournament with a $5 or less buy in is a perfectly reasonable way to break into poker. 

Anyway, my suggestion is to either organize that nickel game with your friends, or start at the PLAY money tables online. If you can build up your play money bankroll to the point you can play in the highest limit play money TOURNAMENTS (not ring games, those people are still often trash players) and make a consistent profit, then you&#039;re probably good enough to win in the micro limit real money games.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Professional gambler and Supernova on Pokerstars.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read somewhere that 95% of people who play poker are losing players overall. So you have to realize going into it, if you want to just turn a profit, you have to be in the top 5% of players in the world. That&#8217;s quite a feat. </p>
<p>I guess I&#8217;d ask what you think &quot;good&quot; money is. In my opinion, it takes only a moderate amount of skill to make a little money (and I do mean &quot;little&quot;) at the micro limit games. Once you get into the low limits where a person could actually make a decent amount of money, even if that is just a couple hundred bucks a week, you&#8217;re playing mostly against decent players, and you need to be in that top 5% to turn a consistent profit. When you step up to the limits where a person can realistically make a living wage (say $750 or more a week), then you&#8217;re going to be sitting at tables where most of the other people are profitable and a good amount of them are professionals. If you want to consistently profit in these games, you need to really be a top tier player.</p>
<p>That being said, if you&#8217;ve never played for money before, online is a great place to start. Almost no live casinos have no limit tables less than $1/$2, meaning you need realistically need $500 in your pocket just to sit down. Online, you can sit in a cash game with .01/.02 limits, meaning you only need 5 bucks. So you tell me, having never played for real money before, would you rather risk $5 or $500? The only other place to play for real money but really low limits is with your friends. Organizing a nickel and dime game with your friends, or a tournament with a $5 or less buy in is a perfectly reasonable way to break into poker. </p>
<p>Anyway, my suggestion is to either organize that nickel game with your friends, or start at the PLAY money tables online. If you can build up your play money bankroll to the point you can play in the highest limit play money TOURNAMENTS (not ring games, those people are still often trash players) and make a consistent profit, then you&#8217;re probably good enough to win in the micro limit real money games.<br /><b>References : </b><br />Professional gambler and Supernova on Pokerstars.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by mrwonderfull</title>
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		<dc:creator>mrwonderfull</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:16:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes   its  hard  to make  good  money  playing  cards  its  like   any other  job  but     if you  lose  you  not only  time  but you  lose  your  paycheck  too..  see   9 to5  job   you  make  minimum  wage  at-least  but   as  card  player  you  might   not  ....i have  seen   people  win    a lot  in  game  and  get  up and  walk  away  broke  or  player  sit  8  hr on  a  20/40  game  and  walk  away  with  5  bucks  profit   ....  this  is the  facts of  playing  ....now  what  you have  seen  on  tv  ok   the  pro   do not  have  to  pay  for entry fee  to    the  tournament  and some   even  get  sponsor  to pay  for  them&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes   its  hard  to make  good  money  playing  cards  its  like   any other  job  but     if you  lose  you  not only  time  but you  lose  your  paycheck  too..  see   9 to5  job   you  make  minimum  wage  at-least  but   as  card  player  you  might   not  &#8230;.i have  seen   people  win    a lot  in  game  and  get  up and  walk  away  broke  or  player  sit  8  hr on  a  20/40  game  and  walk  away  with  5  bucks  profit   &#8230;.  this  is the  facts of  playing  &#8230;.now  what  you have  seen  on  tv  ok   the  pro   do not  have  to  pay  for entry fee  to    the  tournament  and some   even  get  sponsor  to pay  for  them<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by p0k3r5am</title>
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		<dc:creator>p0k3r5am</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:14:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is not difficult as long as you do the basics correct. I would recommend playing free poker first and once you have an idea of what you are doing move to low buy in games. Players do play a lot different for money than they do in free games so you will see a difference immediately. I only learnt how to play a little over 3 years ago and for the first year i played only free poker online and with friends. 2 years ago i started playing for money and it is still only a hobby for me but i have made a bit over US$35k profit in that time and i&#039;m planning to play my first televised tourney next year (a $2,000 buy in event). My biggest single win is only US$1400 so the profit i&#039;ve made is due to consistency rather than one lucky win. You will learn a lot as you go along and it is important not to get impatient.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is not difficult as long as you do the basics correct. I would recommend playing free poker first and once you have an idea of what you are doing move to low buy in games. Players do play a lot different for money than they do in free games so you will see a difference immediately. I only learnt how to play a little over 3 years ago and for the first year i played only free poker online and with friends. 2 years ago i started playing for money and it is still only a hobby for me but i have made a bit over US$35k profit in that time and i&#8217;m planning to play my first televised tourney next year (a $2,000 buy in event). My biggest single win is only US$1400 so the profit i&#8217;ve made is due to consistency rather than one lucky win. You will learn a lot as you go along and it is important not to get impatient.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Chris C.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It really depends on the stakes and type of game that you will be playing online.  It is good that you have started to read books and get an idea of proper strategy.  You have to understand though, on some tables you might see almost 100 hands per hour.  That is equivalent to sitting at a casino for 4 hours.  The money is definitely there to be made, but discipline plays a big factor on whether you will win or lose.  If you play patient, solid poker, you can make quite a bit of money playing online.  Once again, DISCIPLINE is the key.  You will see people playing a wide variety of cards and sometimes winning with junk.  Don&#039;t let yourself get tempted into playing bad cards and you will be fine.  Hope this helps a little and good luck at the tables.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It really depends on the stakes and type of game that you will be playing online.  It is good that you have started to read books and get an idea of proper strategy.  You have to understand though, on some tables you might see almost 100 hands per hour.  That is equivalent to sitting at a casino for 4 hours.  The money is definitely there to be made, but discipline plays a big factor on whether you will win or lose.  If you play patient, solid poker, you can make quite a bit of money playing online.  Once again, DISCIPLINE is the key.  You will see people playing a wide variety of cards and sometimes winning with junk.  Don&#8217;t let yourself get tempted into playing bad cards and you will be fine.  Hope this helps a little and good luck at the tables.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Hannah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hannah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi. I am confident you will find the information here http://www.thebestcasinoguide.com/&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi. I am confident you will find the information here <a href="http://www.thebestcasinoguide.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.thebestcasinoguide.com/</a><br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by GamblingMaster</title>
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		<dc:creator>GamblingMaster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:08:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is difficult anywhere, there are millions of players at some of the sites and most of them even not so good are rushers, if you play tournaments you will see at least 1-2 camikadzees on your table that will go all in on stupid cards...&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;http://www.gamblingsafe.net/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is difficult anywhere, there are millions of players at some of the sites and most of them even not so good are rushers, if you play tournaments you will see at least 1-2 camikadzees on your table that will go all in on stupid cards&#8230;<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.gamblingsafe.net/" rel="nofollow">http://www.gamblingsafe.net/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Attract and Make a Man Fall in Love With You by ♥!!model~act~dance!!♥</title>
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		<dc:creator>♥!!model~act~dance!!♥</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A Saggittarian guy has a crush on me, and I sort of like him, too. So I will just tell you what I do. I am Down To earth, very outgoing, romantic, and can be flirty at times. I am friendly, and love going outside. Maybe he would like that. OOOHHH! Cant forget that I am very stylish and not shy. 

lol :)

I hope this helped!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;www.astrology.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A Saggittarian guy has a crush on me, and I sort of like him, too. So I will just tell you what I do. I am Down To earth, very outgoing, romantic, and can be flirty at times. I am friendly, and love going outside. Maybe he would like that. OOOHHH! Cant forget that I am very stylish and not shy. </p>
<p>lol <img src='http://www.cheatingtruth.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I hope this helped!<br /><b>References : </b><br /><a href="http://www.astrology.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.astrology.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by PokerWhiz</title>
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		<dc:creator>PokerWhiz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You will always have people saying don&#039;t play online poker because you&#039;ll get ripped off, these people don&#039;t realise that you can get ripped off by very &quot;handy&quot; dealers in real casinos as well. Starting online is the best, you can start online with free games too, this will help you improve your skills against a variety of people without needing a poker face just yet. Everyone has to start somewhere. When playing online poker just do some research first on the site you plan to play on, search for reviews from a variety of sources to check on the legitimacy and any pending legal action or accusations against the site, example of fulltilt poker who is currently under lawsuits due to claims of bots etc, so do your homework, if you do your homework properly you will get a good site that you won&#039;t get ripped off on, just because people lose doesn&#039;t mean that the site is rigged, just means usually that they don&#039;t like losing and need to blame someone for their lack of skills. Here is a listing of some poker sites and reviews for them, maybe check some of them out and find more reviews on them for a start http://www.poker777.com/poker-reviews.php&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You will always have people saying don&#8217;t play online poker because you&#8217;ll get ripped off, these people don&#8217;t realise that you can get ripped off by very &quot;handy&quot; dealers in real casinos as well. Starting online is the best, you can start online with free games too, this will help you improve your skills against a variety of people without needing a poker face just yet. Everyone has to start somewhere. When playing online poker just do some research first on the site you plan to play on, search for reviews from a variety of sources to check on the legitimacy and any pending legal action or accusations against the site, example of fulltilt poker who is currently under lawsuits due to claims of bots etc, so do your homework, if you do your homework properly you will get a good site that you won&#8217;t get ripped off on, just because people lose doesn&#8217;t mean that the site is rigged, just means usually that they don&#8217;t like losing and need to blame someone for their lack of skills. Here is a listing of some poker sites and reviews for them, maybe check some of them out and find more reviews on them for a start <a href="http://www.poker777.com/poker-reviews.php" rel="nofollow">http://www.poker777.com/poker-reviews.php</a><br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Attract and Make a Man Fall in Love With You by Betty L</title>
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		<dc:creator>Betty L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sagittarius guys are very outgoing so get his attention. Do something gusty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sagittarius guys are very outgoing so get his attention. Do something gusty.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Love Lockdown Ringtone &#124; Kanye West ~ Love Lockdown Ringtone by threesevens</title>
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		<dc:creator>threesevens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>all of them&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>all of them<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Aaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i wouldn&#039;t&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i wouldn&#8217;t<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Attract and Make a Man Fall in Love With You by emy k</title>
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		<dc:creator>emy k</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Be:
Grounded
Down to earth 
have to have a lust for life
freedom, lots of freedom 
romance at the outdoors..
under the stars and kissing..

thats all i can gather..&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Be:<br />
Grounded<br />
Down to earth<br />
have to have a lust for life<br />
freedom, lots of freedom<br />
romance at the outdoors..<br />
under the stars and kissing..</p>
<p>thats all i can gather..<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Dating For the Single Parent by eddood52</title>
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		<dc:creator>eddood52</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No matter how involved you may get with dates, priority first always to the need of the children. So many times a single parent gets too wrapped up in a new lover that they almost forget about their primary responsibility as a parent.  And you should make your dates aware of this and have them understand it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No matter how involved you may get with dates, priority first always to the need of the children. So many times a single parent gets too wrapped up in a new lover that they almost forget about their primary responsibility as a parent.  And you should make your dates aware of this and have them understand it.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on A Good Advice Chat on Relationships by Becci Feibusch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becci Feibusch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The woman who appeals to a man`s vanity may stimulate him, the woman who appeals to his heart may attract him, but it is the woman who appeals to his imagination who gets him. 
http://aduvoduk.100freemb.com/utanev.html
offers   the solution to  your  thought&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Helen Rowland</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The woman who appeals to a man`s vanity may stimulate him, the woman who appeals to his heart may attract him, but it is the woman who appeals to his imagination who gets him.<br />
<a href="http://aduvoduk.100freemb.com/utanev.html" rel="nofollow">http://aduvoduk.100freemb.com/utanev.html</a><br />
offers   the solution to  your  thought<br /><b>References : </b><br />Helen Rowland</p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by Steven N</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steven N</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes, starting online is easier than live because you&#039;re new. you will have signals that pros will pick up on. no, its not hard. just remember that you&#039;re there to win in the long run not the short so you need to grind it out. win one good pot per hour and youre on your way&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes, starting online is easier than live because you&#8217;re new. you will have signals that pros will pick up on. no, its not hard. just remember that you&#8217;re there to win in the long run not the short so you need to grind it out. win one good pot per hour and youre on your way<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Love Lockdown Ringtone &#124; Kanye West ~ Love Lockdown Ringtone by Grace S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Grace S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>just dance
ull dance everytime you hear it-lol&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>just dance<br />
ull dance everytime you hear it-lol<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Attract and Make a Man Fall in Love With You by miranda12345</title>
		<link>http://www.cheatingtruth.com/looking-for-love-relationship-friend/how-to-attract-and-make-a-man-fall-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1#comment-2253</link>
		<dc:creator>miranda12345</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 01:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;how to attract a saggittarian guy and make him fall in love with you?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>how to attract a saggittarian guy and make him fall in love with you?</b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Dating For the Single Parent by spirit51799</title>
		<link>http://www.cheatingtruth.com/single/dating-for-the-single-parent/comment-page-1#comment-2251</link>
		<dc:creator>spirit51799</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 01:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Are you a single parent? What are your views on dating as a single parent?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;What have your experiences been as a single parent dating? How have your children taken to men or woman you have introduced to your children? Men and Woman&#039;s Opinons welcome.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Are you a single parent? What are your views on dating as a single parent?</b><br />What have your experiences been as a single parent dating? How have your children taken to men or woman you have introduced to your children? Men and Woman&#8217;s Opinons welcome.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Good Advice Chat on Relationships by Wimpyyy</title>
		<link>http://www.cheatingtruth.com/relationships/a-good-advice-chat-on-relationships/comment-page-1#comment-2249</link>
		<dc:creator>Wimpyyy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 01:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;I Need Really Good Relationship Advice...?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m 16
and my ex is 15.
We were together from Sept. until July
The cause of our break up was him talking to
another girl... I didn&#039;t give him a chance or nothing
like that b/c it&#039;s a limit when it comes to relationships
with me ...  I can&#039;t be w&#124; someone who tries to get
with another girl while we&#039;re still together.

Moving On...

I wouldn&#039;t say i&#039;m in love with him but i do
know that i care for him and i do love him, dearly.

After he and the other didn&#039;t work out, he began dating another
girl, named Fallon for about 3 days, they broke up. He now talks
to Tisha and they&#039;ve been together for about a week &amp; a half.

We&#039;re both back in school together so it&#039;s really hard to avoid him
and he doesn&#039;t speak to me in person but only on facebook. He called
me on ooVoo (video chat) and told me that he was about to break
up with Tisha to talk to Fallon again. - he even asked me if i would be upset
b/c i told him that i still wanted to be w&#124; him. I wish i hadn&#039;t though.

My aunt tells me that i don&#039;t need a guy to make me happy, but
i just like being in a relationship =\ she also told me to NOT talk
to him at all ... if he says &quot;hello&quot; , say &quot;hi&quot; and keep it moving

but it&#039;s not that easy ... please help me -- WHAT SHOULD I DO?



***Yes, I do know it&#039;s in the wrong section too =\
Yes, I found the msgs between the two; they were talking about being together.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>I Need Really Good Relationship Advice&#8230;?</b><br />I&#8217;m 16<br />
and my ex is 15.<br />
We were together from Sept. until July<br />
The cause of our break up was him talking to<br />
another girl&#8230; I didn&#8217;t give him a chance or nothing<br />
like that b/c it&#8217;s a limit when it comes to relationships<br />
with me &#8230;  I can&#8217;t be w| someone who tries to get<br />
with another girl while we&#8217;re still together.</p>
<p>Moving On&#8230;</p>
<p>I wouldn&#8217;t say i&#8217;m in love with him but i do<br />
know that i care for him and i do love him, dearly.</p>
<p>After he and the other didn&#8217;t work out, he began dating another<br />
girl, named Fallon for about 3 days, they broke up. He now talks<br />
to Tisha and they&#8217;ve been together for about a week &amp; a half.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re both back in school together so it&#8217;s really hard to avoid him<br />
and he doesn&#8217;t speak to me in person but only on facebook. He called<br />
me on ooVoo (video chat) and told me that he was about to break<br />
up with Tisha to talk to Fallon again. &#8211; he even asked me if i would be upset<br />
b/c i told him that i still wanted to be w| him. I wish i hadn&#8217;t though.</p>
<p>My aunt tells me that i don&#8217;t need a guy to make me happy, but<br />
i just like being in a relationship =\ she also told me to NOT talk<br />
to him at all &#8230; if he says &quot;hello&quot; , say &quot;hi&quot; and keep it moving</p>
<p>but it&#8217;s not that easy &#8230; please help me &#8212; WHAT SHOULD I DO?</p>
<p>***Yes, I do know it&#8217;s in the wrong section too =\<br />
Yes, I found the msgs between the two; they were talking about being together.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Playing Poker Online by ringo1968</title>
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		<dc:creator>ringo1968</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 01:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;is it difficult to make good money playing poker online ?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have read that playing online is the correct place to start. I have only read books, watched poker on tv but have not played.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>is it difficult to make good money playing poker online ?</b><br />I have read that playing online is the correct place to start. I have only read books, watched poker on tv but have not played.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Love Lockdown Ringtone &#124; Kanye West ~ Love Lockdown Ringtone by Kaitlyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kaitlyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 01:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Which Ringtone should i get for my phone?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;Love Lockdown- Kanye West
Love Story- Taylor Swift
If I Were A Boy- Beyonce
Just Dance- Lady Gaga
Whatever you Like- T.I.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Which Ringtone should i get for my phone?</b><br />Love Lockdown- Kanye West<br />
Love Story- Taylor Swift<br />
If I Were A Boy- Beyonce<br />
Just Dance- Lady Gaga<br />
Whatever you Like- T.I.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make by Toasty G</title>
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		<dc:creator>Toasty G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 02:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my god this sounds horrible 
im really sorry but i dont think that i can help you with this&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my god this sounds horrible<br />
im really sorry but i dont think that i can help you with this<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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